Friday, January 20, 2012

Missing the Amazing Plateau

Lately I've been pondering orgasm. I've had a few different sensations in my lifetime thus far that I equate with some kind of orgasm. They are as follows:

1. The mountain peak: building up to an orgasm that lasts around 2-5 seconds and slowly dwindles away
2. The firecracker-dud: building up to an orgasm that doesn't quite get's almost there and then it's just...gone.
3. The amazing plateau: building up, a longer build up, to an orgasm that breaks free and lasts 10-15 seconds and takes about an hour to come down from the euphoric feeling it leaves behind.

I've probably experienced sensation #1 most often in my life and #3 only once or twice ever. Lately I have felt neither though. Sex and masturbation have both felt great and amazing but nothing that really seems to build up at all. Or when it does, it fades away as quickly as it came.

I wouldn't say I'm depressed about it but it is a little perplexing. I read about girls who experience multiple orgasms or can orgasm on command and I just can't even begin to imagine. I've been wondering if something is holding me back; something in my mind. A girlfriend of mine told me that she had a friend who had never really orgasmed and after exploring things with her therapist, she finally was able to. So I've pondered going to some kind of sex-therapist.

Then again, maybe it's as simple as not masturbating. Maybe I masturbate too much. Thinking back to the times when I did experience sensation #3, I didn't really masturbate back fact I would go 2-3 months without doing it. Nowadays, I find myself doing it every other day.

Maybe I need Daddy to make a rule, forcing me not to masturbate unless he says so. That in itself makes me feel tingly all over. =)


  1. Bunny-

    In my experience, a bit of denial can bring back a bit of intensity if you find it's been lacking. It's frustrating and can be quite torturous... xD But I find it enjoyable. In general, I'm not allowed to masturbate without asking (there are some circumstances where this isn't applicable, but the details aren't important) but for Master and I, that's more of a control thing. Still, why not try it out? ;)

  2. My parts are very sensitive after orgasm and I can't keep touching there, so multi-orgasms really aren't possible. But it's the same for my man. After he climaxes, the tip is too sensitive to keep touching it. He expects me to be very different from him because he hears so much about multi-orgasmic women, but the reality is, we're very much alike. Once I'm finished I'm finished, just like he is.

  3. I don't know about everyone, but I've always thought orgasms are in the mind...I know that if I'm tense or feel rushed than it's not as easy to get there. I need to feel secure and relaxed.

    Thankfully, once I get past my first then I'm extremely easy to get to my second, third, and so on. I don't know how to explain it, but Daddy says I'm like the energizer bunny, I just keep going and going and until I beg Daddy to stop!


  4. @zelda - Thanks =) Yeah I think you're right...definitely going to give that a try.

    @t1klish - Thanks, good to know that not every girl has the multi-orgasmic experience.

    @Kitty - Yeah so true...distractions and other things that mess with the mind definitely get in the way.